“Who is the rich man? One who is happy with his lot” – Talmud, Ethics of our Fathers
Easier said than done!
My life never quiet feels complete, there’s always that elusive something that is still missing and impedes my happiness.
As long as we are human, we see what others have and wish we could have it too. Whether it is their health, marriage, kids or wealth.
How can we train ourselves to be completely content and happy with our lot?
Every morning there’s a blessing that we recite thanking Hashem for providing us with all our needs. What a beautiful way to start the day, content and happy. We have everything we need.
But twice a year, on Yom Kippur and the 9th of Av, we skip this blessing. The common denominator between the two days is that both are days that we do not wear (leather) shoes.
Apparently there’s a connection between wearing shoes and being content.
The one thing we are never jealous of is another person’s shoes. You may want the other person’s suit, car or job but never his shoes - because his shoes don’t fit you. Your shoes fit you.
Our shoes remind us to be content with our life because, while imperfect, it is the perfect fit. Another person’s life may seem more appealing but it doesn’t fit you. Each of us was given our unique circumstance, with its disadvantages and advantages, that is the perfect fit.
So look down at your shoes and thank Hashem for giving you ALL you need.
Shabbat Shalom
Rabbi Benjy Silverman